First, a caveat. When I left for Southern California this past weekend, I was carrying so many shoes, evening bags, outfits and makeup, I couldn’t lug along my camera to capture all the excitement and glamor of the Heifer “Beyond Hunger” fundraiser (9/21) and the CLASSY Awards (9/22). So I had to depend on my i-phone. And then, because I was so vain I wanted to BE in all the photos so I could show you my cute clothes, I had to depend on my husband’s steady photography hand. So … yeah.
BUT .. we did have a fabulous time!
On Friday, I went to the groovy Classy Symposium at the New Children’s Museum in San Diego where I listened to some great talks, then skedaddled up to Beverly Hills where I got my makeup done at Blushington‘s by a terrifyingly beautiful Norwegian makeup artist … then managed to find a walk-in hair appointment at 5:30 pm (the event was at 6:30) with an amazing Japanese stylist.
Then, all dolled up and ready to go, we set off to the elegant Hotel Montage and mingled with the rich and famous on behalf of Heifer. It was a gorgeous event — and even though I missed a few of the celebrities I was hoping to meet (people obviously are a lot more eager to lend their names and donations to events then to actually show up), it was beautiful to see Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen, Jane Fonda, and especially Jon Heder among the crowd. I loved my shoes and I loved that I felt fancy after a year of … not so much.
But the reality is, there will always be women 10 times more beautiful than you, 10 times thinner than you, wearing 10 times more amazing clothes than yours — and it really doesn’t matter one bit. I was happy to be dressed up and getting invited to both these amazing events- but have probably been 10 times happier to be in the villages with Heifer this year, meeting the kids and being behind the camera.
The next day we got up and drove back to San Diego (I’m so not a fan of the 405) and on the way had a great lunch with some Oglethorpe alums at the Pacific Coast Grill in Cardiff by the Sea, which is ridiculously beautiful.
But then, because we were late getting back to San Diego I didn’t have time to get my hair or my makeup done … which is probably why I didn’t win. (ha!) In fact, I almost didn’t care that my new blog, Heifer 12 x12, didn’t win me the national award for Volunteer of the Year at the CLASSYs that night, and was almost content with being the Southern Regional Winner (yay!).
I had really wanted to bring it home for Heifer, but … not to be. Luckily, everybody who did win was gracious and deserving — and my Heifer pal & EVP of Marketing, Cindy Jones-Nyland, was so great to show up for me!
So, now I’m back home in Atlanta .. safely ensconced on the third floor of my house, writing, and worrying about my darling brother-in-law Pete who (I just learned this morning) is in the hospital with a critical auto-immune disease — which kind of puts everything else in perspective.
Please say a little prayer for him … and let’s all remember what’s important in life. (And it’s not shoes or elections.)
Hey – you’ve already won… 🙂
I’ll second the raves about how terrific you looked at the events. But some things in life are “real” and some are just fluff. What I admire about you is that you know which is which.
Sending Pete healing thoughts.
Consider yourself HUGGED.
You look great Betty!! I love the “before” photo…the expression on your face is so cute! I said a prayer for Pete! 🙂
Betty, you ARE amazing and CLASSY and even though they didn’t give you that silly trophy. We are all so proud of you and your current work with Heifer. Thank you for enlightening us all about Heifer’s incredibly necessary work around the world and taking us on your journey with you! xoxo!!
Betty, looks like you’ve got the best sides of all worlds, even if you didn’t win the Classy. (I did go vote but found the process somewhat confusing.) Anyway, have a great trip to Cambodia and Vietnam! And this time, don’t forget your camera and/or its charger like I did when I went to Haiti 😦
You look gorgeous – it’s always fun to put on the ritz occasionally. Healing thoughts to your BIL.
My thoughts go out to your brother-in-law. Dressing up and watching beautiful people is fine and all, but it’s true that it’s the real things in life that matter. I love how the event’s fanciness didn’t compare to the happiness you’ve felt while traveling around the world. Stuff like that is what really makes people beautiful. 😉
So proud that you won the Southern Region award… and you looked gorgeous (like always). We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Debbie, Allen & Meredith
Thanks, Rene — and Kathryn!! Larry and I do dress up pretty well (although he forgot his tux jacket and had to go rent one at the last possible moment) but I’m immensely more comfortable in my stupid cargos and orange sweater — and I have to say, I can’t wait to get back out on the road! Vietnam and Cambodia on Friday — and I’m taking you both with me in my head & heart. THANKS for your wonderful support (and Pete is at Mass Gen and in good hands at last, so I’m hoping for a full healthy recovery!)
And here I soooo wanted to see the purple shoes! Argh. LOL! You looked mahvelous, dahling, and so did Larry! So sorry to hear about Pete, and will be praying for him. And you’re so right…it’s not about the clothes we wear, or the hair or makeup or even the right fabulous shoes. It’s about the life we live and giving back!
Okay, Betty, the dress may not matter, but, good God, you look stunning! I especially LOVE the gown you wore to the Classy Awards. I think I have dress-envy! Love you!
Oh, and beautiful couple!
Oh Betty, can I tell you how much I love this and you and what you are doing with your life? A lot. A vast, neverending lot. And the dress. I want the dress. That too. I will keep thoughts of Pete with me, and I look forward to wherever life and your vision take you next.